Wednesday, June 18, 2008

A Little Forgiveness Goes a Long Way...

I heard something wonderful at a recent parent support group. That was one mother telling another, who seemed to be beating up on herself a bit for not having had certain successes with her child, that we need to learn to be more forgiving of ourselves. So obvious, but so important. We want to get it right, dot all the i's, cross all the t's, but kids aren't like that, and kids with special needs most especially aren't like that. We'll never stop working to help them, but sometimes we have just to accept that we do the best we can. And that is perhaps all we really can ask of ourselves.

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

We also need to remember to take care of ourselves. We are constantly caring for our special kids. It is an all-consuming responsibility. We have to take the time to do the things that make us happy, whether it's exercise, date night, or just some quiet time at the coffee shop. It's a way to re-charge our batteries so we can have the energy and patience for our kids whose batteries never seem to run down.